Stop chasing people! All relationships work better when there is an “equal” exchange of energy. When a relationship drains someone, for whatever reason, there is an imbalance of energy and it’s most likely a karmic relationship.
This can only lead to a chain of power games. When manipulation and one-upmanship rear their ugly heads, people play external games to gain external power and feel internally complete. Thus is attention diverted from the real cause of the pain and void that exists within us.
Spiritual relationships with soulmates and all beings come from the place of an open heart, of love. When love is lacking, all interactions are based on ego, an exchange, an expectation for reciprocity; hence from a closed heart which is fearful.
There is no depth in such relationships as they are superficial and can crumble under a slightest disappointment. Soul to soul meetings are always a free flow of love.
~ Lilly